We spend most of our lives worrying about irrelevant things, but every now and then a reminder comes along that let's us know just how little things really matter, last week my young nice died suddenly and just made me realise that I should be thankfull for what I have , all my children alive and well, and me as well, may be all the mundane things we worry about don't really mean much, maybe we should just be satisfied and happy that we are alive.