look without expressionIf alook without expression, has no passion at all to do something. At this moment, good at observing the expression started sooning as lead, in order to correct one's own fault in time. In addition, and two kinds of situations without expression. It is indifferent that one kind is, another kind was not put into heart at all, is scorned to take even a glance at. You had better not bother him at this moment, or talk about everything with he. Certainly, there are opposite situations too, it was showing tremendous enthusiasm that some people originally rolled, it is that one yuan was icy on the surface, he is unwilling to let people find out easily. There is one kind of contacts in the middle" Want to participate in " Expression such as meet old friend at you,is it old friend follow by friend that you do not know again of several persons. The old friend talks about to you after finishing introducing, several new friends hear aside too at this moment, you should observe their expression at this moment. If one of these can listen to you talking conscientiously, and the expression with affinity, join enter topic if necessary, talk very congenial, prove the friend fine in primary impression in you, if the words contacting him afterwards will consolidate your friendship further. Generally this kind of people is more candid, more optimistic; If one of these ignores, or does not just has the hearing of obvious expression in talk of you, not expressing an opinion, scrutinize your behavior and words yet sometimes, the scheming is heavier that this person does not generally get on very well; But it may be good if associated slowly, it is the first time after all. Somebody is to when you have a feeling that feel ashamed and regretful, do not generally dare to face up to, you, sight hangs low, the love is looked side ways down. You can demonstrate by mediating appropriately your magnanimity comes at this moment. People's happiness, anger, grief and joy, expressed through the activity of facial muscles. In fact, the change of people's left and right cheek is not symmetrical, the expression is usually begun by the left face first. American scholar Wolff has done deep studying to people's facial expression, he finds people's face comes faster and strong than the right change facial on the left while expressing mood. As to this, the psychologist of American University of Pennsylvania has done the similar experiment too, having selected the persons of 86 different personalities, has carried on a series of experiments, the result has verified the exactness of Mr. Wolff's judgement: People's facial expression is about asymmetric, the facial expression is Brain right hemisphere have direct connection with external world usually, can and shows on the face through the speech directly as media. The expression of the speech was controlled by the left hemisphere, therefore the expression of the left face comes faster than the right face, stronger. Concrete principle such: People's brain is divided into two hemispheres, the emotion from the deep of the heart is usually controlled by the right brain, reflected by left face specifically; The left brain controls the emotion after rational thinking, then reflected by right face, this kind of expression comes slowly, generally disguise, transform color. So, expressions of the left face are mostly the real expression, the expression of the right face is probably false expression. The scientific experiment has proved the true appearance of the expression in terms of physiology. Don't ignore the expression of the other side while associating, catch the mood that the expression of the other side could extrapolate, have a benefit to conduct oneself in society to you. Section 14: 7, Come to penetrate the other side's psychology (1) from the position of sitting In talking, not only can infer that know its psychology through the other side's voice and expression, in fact, can observe a person's psychological activity out too through the position of sitting. Different position of sitting reflects different psychology. Some people sit down and put up the left leg on the right leg frequently, both hands are put on the left of the thigh alternately or examined in right. Like the person of this kind of position of sitting to be more self-confident, very firm to one's own opinion, opinion, it is generally difficult to be convinced. This kind of heads of people is cleverer, have very good natural gift, have a leadership; But there is swelling with preposterous self-importance, slaphappy act unavoidably when taking the high position, lack certain willpower, the love is changeable, only want to climb to the height wholeheartedly. The combing and leaning together very well behaved of ability to move around when some people sit, both hands are put on the thigh both sides alternately. This kind of thoughts of people is more conservative, it is old fashioned and more inflexible to be done things, does not accept others' opinion easily. Sometimes know what others said is right, but they still adhere to one's own view stubbornly perfectly well. This kind of people is still perfect doctrines person, do things and demand to be perfect. They are very nitpicking to others, but not very contain oneself by oneself, like not stressing practicability very much in illusion, life fail always, this because they too impetuous, what does it do can for a long time, lack
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